tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post2825101819301787105..comments2023-09-26T06:51:40.075-07:00Comments on Coastal Comfort: Good to bad; crash n burn.Sharonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05430156729264046374noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-36424116943367882232007-10-21T20:43:00.001-07:002007-10-21T20:43:00.001-07:00I know you said you had been to Al-Anon and didn&#...I know you said you had been to Al-Anon and didn't like it. Hear that so often...especially from the ones who come back after a long 'stay away'. Would you please consider giving it another honest try? Your struggles and feelings have recognizable validity. It takes those who have been there, done that, and come out a whole person again to really, really help you. Please, for your sanity's sake, try again. And there is AlAteen for Miss M also. Poor kids, caught in this never ending struggle that is not of their making.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-20800826514189842022007-10-21T20:43:00.000-07:002007-10-21T20:43:00.000-07:00Oh Sharon. I think it is time for you to do what ...Oh Sharon. I think it is time for you to do what you know is best for you and your family. You have to keep yourself away from all this stuff. It is consuming you and it is hurting you deeply. He is putting you through a lot. So what if he wants you to make this move, it could be the move you need to do. It doesn't matter if he blames you because you will know that just isn't true. And for the police to ignore a call about a drunk driver is absurd. I feel for you and if you need someone to talk to please IM me whether or not I have my away message on. My thoughts and prayers are with you.<br><br>Allison<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-18431825590792356972007-10-21T20:47:00.000-07:002007-10-21T20:47:00.000-07:00I'm sorry, Miss T.I'm sorry, Miss T.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-43677785381854055562007-10-21T22:57:00.000-07:002007-10-21T22:57:00.000-07:00Oh, Sharon! do you really need that hassle in you...Oh, Sharon! do you really need that hassle in your life? He's not going to stop drinking until he's ready. Sounds like you need him to stop now. All this pain...I'm so sorry.<br><br>Bethe Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-43285598334729657792007-10-22T03:43:00.000-07:002007-10-22T03:43:00.000-07:00Oh Sweety, Something has to give, before someone ...Oh Sweety, Something has to give, before someone gets hurt. Maybe some kind of intervention.....something to force him into a rehab.<br>If you want to talk, please e-mail me.<br>Love you<br>E.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-46316413173025126032007-10-22T04:07:00.000-07:002007-10-22T04:07:00.000-07:00Having lived with an alcoholic father, I know your...Having lived with an alcoholic father, I know your pain. I see it in my mother almost everyday. There are two choices here and I know one of them is scarey because it is such an unknown, to ask him to leave. I can only say from my own experience that I think my parents would have been better off apart. The roller coaster continues to this day between them, and I can tell you from a child's perspective - it just is not fun. I don't like them either! God Bless and I will pray for you Sharon! I know it is hard!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-28652394989217370322007-10-22T04:34:00.000-07:002007-10-22T04:34:00.000-07:00You hit the nail on the head. He is waiting for y...You hit the nail on the head. He is waiting for you to kick him out. He has no problems - it's all you. At least that is the way he wants it to go. Heaven forbid he take responsiblity for his own actions. I'm so sorry.<br>TraciAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-2354415082910668732007-10-22T05:33:00.000-07:002007-10-22T05:33:00.000-07:00sorry to hear all of thissorry to hear all of thisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-46581617577667576622007-10-22T05:35:00.000-07:002007-10-22T05:35:00.000-07:00Oh my Gosh, that's terrible. I hope everythi...Oh my Gosh, that's terrible. I hope everything gets better for you Sharon. <br>Glad to hear that the wedding is over.. I'll have to catch up on what happened. <br><br>Take care<br>LeslieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-33667218471429890422007-10-22T05:55:00.000-07:002007-10-22T05:55:00.000-07:00You need to take you and your children off of this...You need to take you and your children off of this roller coaster. Whatever it is your feeling you can bet Miss T is feeling it too and it is affecting her and will continue to. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care.<br><br>PhilAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-28013113552130977542007-10-22T06:50:00.000-07:002007-10-22T06:50:00.000-07:00Sharon...how much longer til your life is broken??...Sharon...how much longer til your life is broken?? Your spirit will continue to refresh itself, but your life?? Mr Man is a tragedy waiting to happen...don't let him take you with him. Think of your daughter. He's made his choice...now its time to make yours. Think of yourself!<br>xoxo ~MyraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-16422325334575555202007-10-22T08:24:00.000-07:002007-10-22T08:24:00.000-07:00I'm so sorry you had an episode like that. I ...I'm so sorry you had an episode like that. I know he's your husband and the father of your child, but there comes a time you must walk away for your own good and Miss T's good. I don't think he's going to change until he completely falls and that won't be until you leave him on his own.<br>Missie<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-58705626255641420212007-10-22T09:42:00.000-07:002007-10-22T09:42:00.000-07:00no alcoholic will ever stop unless THEY own up to ...no alcoholic will ever stop unless THEY own up to their problems..no matter how much it hurts us, breaks our spirit or ruins our lives. Some will lose everything and still drink. I have been there and dealt with it my whole LIFE. I am so sorry you have to put up with this but you can not change him.<br>love you so,<br>lisaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-69383799298684195492007-10-22T10:05:00.000-07:002007-10-22T10:05:00.000-07:00(((((((((((((HUGSTYOU))))))))))))))))))I am sorry ...(((((((((((((HUGSTYOU))))))))))))))))))I am sorry you are going through al of this.I know it hurts.My Dad drinks,so does my Boyfriend,but Boyfriend doesnt drink that much.I kinda know what your going through because of my Dad.But than again,I may not know what your going through.My prayers are with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8764782321623480158.post-8776714489398608542007-10-24T10:25:00.000-07:002007-10-24T10:25:00.000-07:00I hate rollercoasters too. Someday honey, you are...I hate rollercoasters too. Someday honey, you are going to be very very happy. and when I get down, the beach helps me too. : ) love you, ShellyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com