Thursday, May 3, 2007

Thursday Questions

Having told Tom on Tuesday that he can't be trusted due to his lies, I'm again wondering about something..........

His Doc has yet to call with an appointment with the cardiologist.  Yes, he came home with Nitro pills but that just could be something "standard" to give someone with occassional chest pains "just in case". 

IF the EKG was done, and IF it indeed was showing signs of variation we should have heard something by now one would hope. 

Is Mr Man looking for sympathy so that I will ease up on him regarding his drinking and etc's?

On my way to work I phoned the doc's office and left a message "just wondering" if they had been able to set up the appointment........................IF it was what they intended to do, they'll call back; IF NOT they'll maybe wonder why I'm asking.   Hmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Tom has gone back into his world behind the wall...you know the wall we all put up and refuse to let others in.  I have reminded him he's not doing all that he promised.  He won't talk to me.

On a happier note, My Miss T has the main part in a play her 4th grade is doing.......WAY TO GO!!!!!  My little star.....thank GOD for her!  Love her to pieces!!!! 

We have spent 2 days on dance pictures at the dance studio - you know, one of those "hurry up and wait" kind of things.  My little camera ham can be a little nut.  Her acro picture is a back bend.....OUCH!!!! 

14 comments:

Anonymous said...

The Prozac, if he is really taking it, will NOT work over night. May take a month or more to work.
Sigh. Babe, i worry so about you and wish i had some answers. You and T deserve only the best!
Love,lisa

Anonymous said...

Your pictures are great. That girl of your is really limber. It does make you wonder why he hasn't heard from his Dr yet. I hope he soon pulls out of this where you all can find some happiness. Helen

Anonymous said...

What if the doc has already called him and he just hasn't said??  He really needs help, and why can't he see you're just trying to help??  What a way to live for him and you, too.  Take care...
xoxo ~Myra

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  You and your little star deserve better.
Traci

Anonymous said...

Great pictures !

Anonymous said...

It just all sucks.  :-(  I'm sorry you have to constantly deal with THIS stuff.  At least you have Miss T.  I don't think I've ever been able to bend like that.  LOL.


Amy

Anonymous said...

You'll make it through this, you have your daughter by your side.
I dont think I was ever able to bend like that....geez.
Big hugs,
E

Anonymous said...

hang in there kid. have a great weekend!

Anonymous said...

Your Miss T is very flexible.  I am sure I could not do that even when I was her age!  No wonder she can dance, dance, dance!  Your rose is beautiful!  My roses are looking pretty good this year so far . . . I would like to get a couple of tree roses soon so I can get them planted before it gets too hot-red ones I think.  Sorry, once I start talking about roses I boringly go on and on.  Have a good weekend even if Mr. Man isn't talking!

Anonymous said...

hopefully the depression meds kick in soon. i heard they take anywhere from 2 weeks to a month before you notice a difference. good for miss T in getting the lead part, great job. hope you have an awesome day. (((((((hugs))))))
Cindy

Anonymous said...

Hi there.  Stopping by to say hi.  Hope all is well with Tom.  And oh my...that back bend.  Makes me dizzy looking at it.  I'd fall over in that stance.  LOL
Sonya

Anonymous said...

You have positive things in your life to help you through, but there comes a point when you have to make decisions about your life and your little one's as well.  This is not a good situation for you and if Tom isn't living up to his end of the bargain he is letting y'all down.  Without trust there is pretty much nothing left.  Anyway, having said that, hope your weekend is OK.  Take care.

Phil

Anonymous said...

WTG, Miss T! You're holding up real well despite the circumstances, Sharon. I want to give you lots of hugs even if you refuse. If you need anything, I am just an e-mail away.

Anonymous said...

All the people have left you some very good advice so I won't repeat it.  I just want to say hi and let you know I'm thinking of you &  praying for you all. I hope you have a good week.
Hugs, Barb