Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Clarifying....

Selling jewelry is optional....not because I "need" the money.  I just don't wear the stuff anymore.  The only time I put on my engagement ring is for an event (wedding or shower, etc) so....as they're advertising, now is the time to sell "old gold".

Moving.......it's a thought.  It would make my life easier and more convenient.

But......

There's a lot of leg work to be done and considered before I make that move.

Miss T would start a new school.

And NO if I made that move Tom wouldn't be a part of it.  I've talked it over with a dear friend and my Mom.  No one wants to see me leave my home and legally the best thing would be for Tom to leave....abandonment. 

I have also decided that I will NOT go to E City with him in September.  Let him face whatever it is alone.  If he's incarcerated, I'll make arrangements to go pick up the vehicle.....again.

I have thought about alerting the DA there that he is "habitual" and deserves whatever they'll throw at him.  What he needs is GOD, good counseling and an alcohol monitoring bracelet.

11 comments:

garnett109 said...

no comment, except for enjoy your day

chat2missie said...

I've already sold jewelry that I knew i wasn't ever going to wear.  You'll get more money for it on Ebay.
Missie

imgr8phil said...

I figured your move would be minus Tom.  I'm glad you are actually considering options in your life.  Don't let fear of the unknown stop you from making a rational decision.  Take care.

Phil

hadonfield78 said...

Whatever decisions you make, know that your freinds will always stand behind you. I know you have thought alot about it and have much to decide...
My thoughts and prayers are with you....
I hope and wish for the very best for you.

queeniemart said...

they say the prices for gold have never been higher than now. LOVE YOU!

cuteallison1980 said...

If you think with a level head and not with emotion you will come to the right conclusions in your life as to what to do for you and Miss T.  Your futures are determined upon what you decide.  Think logically and do your best to keep emotions out when contemplating what to do.  If you do this you will come to a good decision whatever you decide.  I will pray for you and Miss T and your husband.  Have a happy Wednesday. : )

Allison

xxroxymamaxx said...

Whatever you decide will be for the best!!  I have faith in your decisions.  Love, Shelly

hugsdoodlewacky said...

(((((((((((((((((HUGSTOOU))))))))))))))))))))I think you are doing the right thing you need to do for you Miss T.Praying for you.

deshelestraci said...

I read your entry yesterday but didn't have time to comment.  Our dsl had to be let go so I'm at the mercy of my friends to let me use their computers.  I had questions but you seemed to answer them.  It sounded like a mental download entry to me anyway.  Sounds like you are thinking clearly.  Blessings to you.
Traci

lifes2odd said...

I wish you strength in making your decision Sharon. Your friends will be here for you no matter what you decide. Hugs, Martha

rgossett4195 said...

You do have an amazing inner strength.  Sometimes the courts look at a habitual with more mercy, but they are required to go to some sort of major treatment, which it sounds like Tom needs.  

My prayers are with you and your little one.

rose