Selling jewelry is optional....not because I "need" the money. I just don't wear the stuff anymore. The only time I put on my engagement ring is for an event (wedding or shower, etc) so....as they're advertising, now is the time to sell "old gold".
Moving.......it's a thought. It would make my life easier and more convenient.
There's a lot of leg work to be done and considered before I make that move.
Miss T would start a new school.
And NO if I made that move Tom wouldn't be a part of it. I've talked it over with a dear friend and my Mom. No one wants to see me leave my home and legally the best thing would be for Tom to leave....abandonment.
I have also decided that I will NOT go to E City with him in September. Let him face whatever it is alone. If he's incarcerated, I'll make arrangements to go pick up the vehicle.....again.
I have thought about alerting the DA there that he is "habitual" and deserves whatever they'll throw at him. What he needs is GOD, good counseling and an alcohol monitoring bracelet.