Saturday, July 26, 2008

Numb

Went away for a few days, me and Miss T.....left Wed about 6pm to head to Myrtle...spend some time with my Mom and StepDad.

While we were gone....Tom had a confession (on Thursday eve) to doing "something stupid" which is his code for drugs.

Didn't talk with him on Friday......

Got home this morning, Saturday, around 9:30am; got him up to finish pressure washing the house.  He did....but he's very quiet. 

Miss T wanted to go over to a friend's house, so I dropped her off and headed over to have my nails done. 

On a hunch, just decided to check the bank balance......

$ -850.00

Just how the hell does a bank allow that????

Looks like he "celebrated" his idiocy after his confession.

Do I see a "curb" in his future?

21 comments:

cacklinrosie101 said...

Wow, only you can make the decision about the curb but you will definitely know when you've had enough and decide that you and Ms. T aren't going down with the ship.  Saying my prayers for you all....HUGS Chris

garnett109 said...

How did miss t enjoy her trip?

sharonna1955 said...

oh my god im so sorry ,i hope you do see a curb ..luv yah ..Sue

lifes2odd said...

::sigh:: I agree with Chris.

robinngabster said...

Sorry to hear this...but at this point it sounds like he knows you will put up with it and as long as you do nothing will change.  I don't see a curb anywhere in his near future.  Wish there were some magical words to say...

madcobug said...

I am so sorry this has happened. That is a lot of money in the hole. Helen

sunnybethe said...

Only you can mak eht edecision of how much you are willing to put up with.  He obviously thinks he can get away wit hit.  Ruining your credit & leaving you to pick up the pieces.  Bethe

hugsdoodlewacky said...

(((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))))))))You dont deserve this.Hope it all works out for you.

eml625 said...

Sharon, HE wont change the situation so maybe you have to now. That's a lot to be negative balance on.
Sorry about this.
Stay strong
Ellen

jckfrstross said...

he knows what he is doing.....sad praying for you and miss t and Tom

Deb

lazarai said...

By not showing him the curb, I'm afraid you're enabling him. :( You do NOT deserve this, nor does Miss T. But only you can show him the door....and the curb. I'm so sorry!!!

Big hugs,
Carol

imgr8phil said...

The only thing you have to curb is your relationship with that man.  He will mess up the rest of your life both emotionally and financially and you are enabling him to do so.  He will drive drunk again and maybe even end up killing someone next time.  Then all of your assests will be gone when you lose the lawsuit.  He doesn't give a crap about his life, it is time you care about yours and your daughter's life.  Get out before it's too late.  You know I care about you.  Do what's best for you but you really need to think about getting away from the problems that he won't address.  Take care.

Phil

emabecmar said...

his clothes and him would be out on curb real quick with a negative balance of that amount.

Love,
Cindy

cuteallison1980 said...

This makes me so sad.  You and Miss T shouldn't have to live like this.  You both deserve so much better.  I will keep you in my prayers and hopefully something good will happen to you soon.  Luv ya!

Allison

deshelestraci said...

Curb is the least of it!  I hate to be harsh but he would have been gone after the last court incident.  I'm so sorry, Sharon.
Traci

chat2missie said...

Sending you a big cyber hug!  I'm sorry...............
Missie

queeniemart said...

No words....just i TRULY love you. I wish i could help. I truly do.

ndnhunny30 said...

Sometimes I swear your hubby and mine our long lost brothers!! Curb is the nice place to put him! I am sorry hun..............
Hugs,
Robyn

ukgal36 said...

I think banks leave a lot to be desired... i don't know why they allow money that isn't "there" to be spent...
i don't how you keep on keeping on woman.... unbeleivable..i would be a basket case...
Lyn

rgossett4195 said...

wow I thought by now Tom would have learned a lesson.  I am very sorry.  rose

onehenn3chicks said...

I don't know how you can survive this all the time. :-(  Cut up his bank accounts.  


Amy

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