Went away for a few days, me and Miss T.....left Wed about 6pm to head to Myrtle...spend some time with my Mom and StepDad.
While we were gone....Tom had a confession (on Thursday eve) to doing "something stupid" which is his code for drugs.
Didn't talk with him on Friday......
Got home this morning, Saturday, around 9:30am; got him up to finish pressure washing the house. He did....but he's very quiet.
Miss T wanted to go over to a friend's house, so I dropped her off and headed over to have my nails done.
On a hunch, just decided to check the bank balance......
$ -850.00
Just how the hell does a bank allow that????
Looks like he "celebrated" his idiocy after his confession.
Do I see a "curb" in his future?
21 comments:
Wow, only you can make the decision about the curb but you will definitely know when you've had enough and decide that you and Ms. T aren't going down with the ship. Saying my prayers for you all....HUGS Chris
How did miss t enjoy her trip?
oh my god im so sorry ,i hope you do see a curb ..luv yah ..Sue
::sigh:: I agree with Chris.
Sorry to hear this...but at this point it sounds like he knows you will put up with it and as long as you do nothing will change. I don't see a curb anywhere in his near future. Wish there were some magical words to say...
I am so sorry this has happened. That is a lot of money in the hole. Helen
Only you can mak eht edecision of how much you are willing to put up with. He obviously thinks he can get away wit hit. Ruining your credit & leaving you to pick up the pieces. Bethe
(((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))))))))You dont deserve this.Hope it all works out for you.
Sharon, HE wont change the situation so maybe you have to now. That's a lot to be negative balance on.
Sorry about this.
Stay strong
Ellen
he knows what he is doing.....sad praying for you and miss t and Tom
Deb
By not showing him the curb, I'm afraid you're enabling him. :( You do NOT deserve this, nor does Miss T. But only you can show him the door....and the curb. I'm so sorry!!!
Big hugs,
Carol
The only thing you have to curb is your relationship with that man. He will mess up the rest of your life both emotionally and financially and you are enabling him to do so. He will drive drunk again and maybe even end up killing someone next time. Then all of your assests will be gone when you lose the lawsuit. He doesn't give a crap about his life, it is time you care about yours and your daughter's life. Get out before it's too late. You know I care about you. Do what's best for you but you really need to think about getting away from the problems that he won't address. Take care.
Phil
his clothes and him would be out on curb real quick with a negative balance of that amount.
Love,
Cindy
This makes me so sad. You and Miss T shouldn't have to live like this. You both deserve so much better. I will keep you in my prayers and hopefully something good will happen to you soon. Luv ya!
Allison
Curb is the least of it! I hate to be harsh but he would have been gone after the last court incident. I'm so sorry, Sharon.
Traci
Sending you a big cyber hug! I'm sorry...............
Missie
No words....just i TRULY love you. I wish i could help. I truly do.
Sometimes I swear your hubby and mine our long lost brothers!! Curb is the nice place to put him! I am sorry hun..............
Hugs,
Robyn
I think banks leave a lot to be desired... i don't know why they allow money that isn't "there" to be spent...
i don't how you keep on keeping on woman.... unbeleivable..i would be a basket case...
Lyn
wow I thought by now Tom would have learned a lesson. I am very sorry. rose
I don't know how you can survive this all the time. :-( Cut up his bank accounts.
Amy
(((HUGS)))
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