Monday, July 28, 2008

Thinking of .....

......selling some of my jewelry. 

Well, the gold stuff that is. 

Especially one shell ring that I loved forever that finally broke 2 years ago at a dance competition - given to me by my first hubby.

I never wear my diamond ring anymore.........

Or that diamond heart necklace...........

One my Dad gave me has never been out of its box......

I'll keep my pearls.

And my wedding ring....it has 7 diamonds in it and you never know when it will come in handy ( out at night - alone ).

 

........moving.

Now there's a scarey concept.

Actually mentioned it to the boss this morning.  Moving into town would get me closer to everything - work, dance, shopping.  Gas is a killer.  Miss T would have to start a new school, but hey, she's doing that anyway - it's MIDDLE SCHOOL YEAR!  Plus most of her friends are dancer's anyway and in town.

Money..........ah, the dreaded evil partner that never seems to be there when you need / want it.  Geesh, security deposit, first and last months rent, utilites, PACKING!   Ugh, packing!

.........just thinking...........

10 comments:

robinngabster said...

Oh Sharon...don't get rid of too much jewelry.  There may be things you will want to hand down to your daughter.   I know leaving would be scary, I think you are strong enough to do it and he would have to give you some money.

I'm praying for you...it just breaks my heart that you are having to deal with all this...

xoxo

katerh99 said...

Sharon, Are you willing to go back to Al Anon now? You are going to need support whether you mull leaving or staying. If you felt confused before, well, the madness is only about to start. Please be good to your self and be with some clear headed people who have. "Been here, done that". And Al Anon neither encourages or discourages divorce. It just gives you some much needed oxygen to an overwhelmed brain! Truly! It's time to stop fighting this insanityalone!

hugsdoodlewacky said...

((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYU))))))))))))))))))))))))I pray things will go alright.

sugarsweet056 said...

Your in my thoughts & prayers.
Hope everything goes as you hope it will.
Hugs,
Sugar

pudge450 said...

Sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.  Good luck.

eml625 said...

You GO girl !
Stay strong, and stay ahead of the game.
Love ya
E.

garnett109 said...

WHY?

queeniemart said...

Has he ever went to AA?   He needs to go, change, and figure out that he is going to lose EVERYTHING soon.
i love you

onehenn3chicks said...

Is it just you and Miss T that are moving??  I'm sad you have to sell your jewlery.  
:-(

amy

chat2missie said...

I know it would be hard, but if you're going to make a move like that, I hope it's without Tom!  Thinking of you always.
Missie