First of all.....
Santa made it to our side of NC.....Miss T got her American Girl doll and some accessories, the Pirates III movie and CD, new Heeleys, games, money.
Miss T gave me some perfume and shirts. Tom and I don't exchange gifts.
We went to my parents home for lunch...turkey and all. Yummmy!!! Even my nephew was there, up and full of himself.
Mom and StepDad came through with the Christmas cash YAY.
So with that added cushion YES I plan to come to FLORIDA.......but I'll certainly be on a mission.
I've asked Mr Man "how could you" give away my Christmas to some losers. Where was MY Merry Christmas?
Not so merry for me. I'm still angry.....have not cried yet but I am on the verge. I cannot fathom how he figured that just because I was not at home Sunday afternoon, that gave him the right to leave and do the things he did. KNOWINGLY! gave away OUR Christmas.
It has been 5 years since I had a "bad" Christmas and that one involved my Father. I said words that day that I never thought I would on such a Holy day.
And today, it is de ja vu in a way.
Tom says he doesn't want to go.......... I said "then you call your Dad and tell him EXACTLY why" and guess what he started to say.................
"No, cause I don't want to upset------" That's when I laid into him.
I said "Why is it OK for you to ruin MY holiday and Miss T's too and NOT OK for you to upset your Father!!???!!"
Oh Hell No! We're going....and I'm going on a mission. I said "you will sit at your Father's table and tell him why Sharon is so pissed off and WHY we almost didn't come.....you will watch your Father as his face falls in disappointment AGAIN".
I also said "why should I let YOU ruin my plans?". Even Miss T said "Mommy, I think you should go and go to the beach and be with your friends."
What a wonderful kid.
So there! Shelly, Martha ..... I'm coming!
But Tom won't be having any fun......(hehehehe). I may just leave him at his Dad's while I run off for fun!!!
Lord, please forgive me for being so angry on Your special day.