Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Going with a vengence!

First of all.....

Santa made it to our side of NC.....Miss T got her American Girl doll and some accessories, the Pirates III movie and CD, new Heeleys, games, money.

Miss T gave me some perfume and shirts.  Tom and I don't exchange gifts.

 

We went to my parents home for lunch...turkey and all.  Yummmy!!!  Even my nephew was there, up and full of himself.

Mom and StepDad came through with the Christmas cash YAY.

So with that added cushion YES I plan to come to FLORIDA.......but I'll certainly be on a mission. 

I've asked Mr Man "how could you" give away my Christmas to some losers.  Where was MY Merry Christmas?

Not so merry for me.  I'm still angry.....have not cried yet but I am on the verge.  I cannot fathom how he figured that just because I was not at home Sunday afternoon, that gave him the right to leave and do the things he did.  KNOWINGLY! gave away OUR Christmas.

It has been 5 years since I had a "bad" Christmas and that one involved my Father.  I said words that day that I never thought I would on such a Holy day.

And today, it is de ja vu in a way.

Tom says he doesn't want to go.......... I said "then you call your Dad and tell him EXACTLY why" and guess what he started to say.................

"No, cause I don't want to upset------"  That's when I laid into him.

I said "Why is it OK for you to ruin MY holiday and Miss T's too and NOT OK for you to upset your Father!!???!!"

Oh Hell No!  We're going....and I'm going on a mission.  I said "you will sit at your Father's table and tell him why Sharon is so pissed off and WHY we almost didn't come.....you will watch your Father as his face falls in disappointment AGAIN".

I also said "why should I let YOU ruin my plans?".  Even Miss T said "Mommy, I think you should go and go to the beach and be with your friends."

What a wonderful kid. 

So there!  Shelly, Martha ..... I'm coming!

But Tom won't be having any fun......(hehehehe).  I may just leave him at his Dad's while I run off for fun!!!

Lord, please forgive me for being so angry on Your special day.

15 comments:

imgr8phil said...

You have a right to be angry at Tom.  Try to put it aside for the rest of the day for Miss T's sake.  Then lay into the ass tomorrow!  LOL  Take care.

Phil

garnett109 said...

Good luck on your mission , Merry Christmas And a Happy new year!

gaboatman said...

Sharon
I really do hope that you are able to make the trip to see your friends in Florida and I hope you actually go!  Good luck with all of this.  In the meantime, I wish you and yourdaughter all the best!
Sam

cuteallison1980 said...

Miss T is so sweet and special.  Can you clone her and send one out this way?  LOL  Sorry about Tom, I don't know what to say about that.  Have a good evening. : )

Allison

onecrabn3lilfish said...

Sorry things with Tom went to hell.  :-(  I hope it gets better and you get to Florida.
Maybe his father will give him the kick in the pants that he needs.
Amy

cacklinrosie101 said...

Sharon, the Lord forgives you for being angry on His day because he undestands your anger; so do I.  You need to be angry at Tom.  Right now, he has no desire for anything but his bad "habits."  He could care less what it costs you.  Girl, you know I've been down this road.  I stuck it out for 18 years and regret doing it that long.  I only pray that somehow, someway Tom wises up or you reach that certain point.  Go to Fla and live it up!  Too bad if Tom has to face his dad's disappointment.  Miss T is right.  Hugs n Love, Chris

eml625 said...

I'm glad your going. You deserve some down time.
Which American girl doll did she get? We have Elizabeth and Nicki.....oh soooo pricey !! LOL
Big hugs,
Ellen

tampa0503 said...

What a crappy thing for him to do!  Lord will understand why you are angry.  
Right now I am sitting in a blizzard in northern Colorado. Hmmm, I left Florida for this??  Have a great time!

luv ya's, Bethe

madcobug said...

I am glad that you are getting to go. I feel sorry for Tom's Dad to have to be so disappointed. I hope you have a safe trip and can have some fun. You deserve it. Helen

chat2missie said...

I don't blame you for being in such a bad mood over the holidays.  You are such a strong person!  I sure hope you have lots of fun on your trip.  You deserve it!
Missie

randlprysock said...

Hi Sweet Sharon... I totally understand your frustration this year and you have every right to be angry!!  I am glad you were able to express it too because that means it won't be holding in which is often the worst thing ever.  I am so glad you are getting to go on the trip and hope yo u have a marvelous time!!  I remember when we gave my stepdaughters their American Girl dolls.... they loved them so much.  I hope we will be able to get one for Courtney someday!!  Maybe next year...
Lisa

lifes2odd said...

So sorry about all the crap you are going through. Can't wait to see you!
Martha

emabecmar said...

enjoy florida. ((((hugs))))))
Cindy

hugsdoodlewacky said...

(((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))I am so sorry you are going through all this.I do hope  and pra things will work out for the best for you and Miss T.

queeniemart said...

Tom is extremely selfish and should be ashamed of the things he does to you. As i say all the time, YOU and Miss T deserve SO much better!! I pray you go and you are safe and find joy on your trip.
Love,lisa