Sunday, December 23, 2007

Near tears.

Recently I transferred $$$ into Tom's account....the one he has the ATM card for.  I told him it was FL money. 

Today he goes to the bar to watch the Giants.  I always make him leave the ATM card home and he leaves with about $20-25 in hand .... I said "come directly home when the game is done" and he agreed.  As a matter of fact, he's been saying this week "I won't disappoint you this Christmas".

I knew last night when I said "imagine us...being together 10 years" that I could be jinxing the run of luck he's been having.

For sure enough, he did come home after the game (4pm)...talked to me on the phone (I was taking Nanny into town to see her son)....but then Miss T called asking "Where's Tom?" at 6pm.

Seems he left the house..........and took the ATM card.

Yep.

So I've checked online.....sure enough, he's hitting it.  And keeps hitting it.....at 9:30pm.

Why now?

If for some reason we don't take the FL trip this year, rest assured TOM will be calling his Dad to explain the REAL reason why.

Ho Ho Ho!

16 comments:

nhd106 said...

Ugh...sorry to hear this.
Try and enjoy whatever you can of this season.

Nancy

cacklinrosie101 said...

Dang, I'd be ready to commit an act of violence.  Hope you can salvage your Christmas....HUGS  Chris

mpnaz58 said...

Sharon I am so sorry...and you've been so worried about $$$ being so tight!  Let him explain that one!  
xoxo~Myra

nightmaremom said...

ohhhhh I am so very sorry... I do wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas and a better 2008
hugs
d

barebytes said...

Your trust amazes me..... Hugs Lanny

lifes2odd said...

I am so sorry Sharon. Please keep me posted :-(
Martha

cuteallison1980 said...

He keeps getting so many chances.  You are so good to give him the chance to prove himself.  I just wish he's stop disappointing you and do the right thing.  You deserve that so much.  I hope you and Miss T have a wonderful Christmas.  : )

Allison

eml625 said...

God this makes me mad. He has gotten way to many chances to keep f'ing up !
Please do what you have to do with you and your daughter. This isnt fair to you both.
Love you
Ellen

garnett109 said...

sorry to hear this

acoward15 said...

I hope your xmas all works out for you in the end.

robinngabster said...

So so sorry.  He never changes does he... hope the trip still works out.

springangel235 said...

I feel so bad he did this....and wishing all goes well, and you can go...many hugs and love to you....Merry Christmas!!!  
Joyce

imgr8phil said...

You shouldn't have to be going through this at this time of year.  I know you are trying so very hard to make your marriage work.  Try to have a good Christmas with Miss T, she needs it as well.  I think maybe come New Year you have to make a decision on what is best for you and Miss T for the rest of your lives.  If you stay in this situation this seems like it is never going to change and it gets to the point where if you don't do something you really don't have much to complain about.  I wish he would change, but obviously drinking is more important than anything else to him.  Take care sweetie.

Phil

queeniemart said...

i am so sorry about this...and i pray somehow things work out!!!!!!
LOVE, lisa

chat2missie said...

I'm so sorry!  To bad the ghosts of Christmas pasts and future can't give Tom a visit and straighten him out!
Missie

hugsdoodlewacky said...

(((((((((((((((((TPIEZ4ME))))))I am so sorry He is doing that.I hope and pray things turn around for the better.