Saturday, January 19, 2008



Hey Y'all! 

It's been a weird kinda week for me.  Lots of mixed emotions. 

First, I did speak with Mr Ryan on Friday.  We shared information; he told me some personality traits about his daughter and I shared with him my personal experience with xRoomie.  He mentioned "drums" and I told him to google "drum circles".

(Martha - the kid loves drums!!!) 

He will talk it over with his wife and consider xRoomie's offer to help.

My bestestfriendinthewholewideworld is upset with me STILL about me not attending the "batchelorette" night.  I sent her an email "what to do when...." and I received a short, curt reply to it which began an email exchange.  I was near tears!  I could have cried my eyes out, but I held it back.

I hope we got that straightened out.  Still, I AM guilty of not being a very good friend as of late.  I haven't seen her since Oct!  (bad me and I feel like crap for it)  Seems her X is refusing to help pay for their daughter's wedding; and her current is being a butthead.

    Sigh.............I can't fix everybody.

xRoomie is not so comfortable in her current situation.  We had lunch this week (yay!) and talked.  I told her that her room was always available.  Well, of course, 90% of her stuff is still here LOL!!!

Thursday Miss T had a half day at school so I told her to come to my office and I would put her to work!  I let her file (I hate filing) while Mr Man went for lunch.  He came back and I could SMELL that he'd had a drink and he didn't even have to get close to me.

He said One Beer. 

He took Miss T to her dance class, then they came back and she was bent out of shape!!

Seems she had an issue with him and motioned that it was "his breath". 

He then says "she thinks we're going to fight" and I said"NO, she's been told and is learning things for herself and in school about people who drink and their actions so don't be so surprised that she's acting this way!"

It bothered him because, as he put it "it was only one beer" and he feels like she and I are over reacting.  So he leaves her with me.

She and I go out to eat, then I realized I had to be back at the dance studio to help hang and tag the costumes.  They needed to be ready for Feb 2nd's dress rehearsal.  I called and left him a msg on his cell.

We got home at midnight!  No Tom.  Not till 3am.  I checked his account online...............


I had told him on Wed that I transferred $300 into his personal account, for gas, etc.  He had wanted to go to Myrtle Beach for a boat show on Friday and Saturday.

Remember the incident just before Christmas?

De ja vu!  Mirror --- Ditto --- Encore performance.

Friday morning after meeting with Mr Ryan, I picked up Miss T from Nanny's --- got a call from boss's daughter asking if I could pick her up from  College and take her to a friend's house.....SURE.

Picked her up at Noon and then went BACK to the dance studio.  Miss T and I were there until MIDNIGHT.

Once home, Tom said "I'm confused.  That's all I have to say right now, so let it be."


I said "I think you have that backwards --- I am the one that is confused.

It's 11am on Saturday and raining.  Gonna rain all day.  He's still in bed, no surprise.

Going to be an intersting day.

Should I stay or should I go???  I need to stay home and work here.  I am also needed to help with dance.

I need Calgon.

I need ME time.

I wanna run away.


randlprysock said...

Hope you get some me time this weekend and have a splendid day for just you!!!!!  Many hugs and thank God it's the weekend.  

angcrewswife said...

Im with Todays prediction... Going back t bed sounds good! Im sorry you are still experiancing these issues with Mr Man. I hope things look up..

garnett109 said...

have one of those mellow yellows and relax!

deshelestraci said...

What does xroomie say about Tom?  You know what you need to do.

imgr8phil said...

You are right, you do need time to yourself.  Find the time and go somewhere to veg out.  Have a good weekend.  Take care.


bobbysgirl8584 said...

you definitely need some "me" time; my head is spinning just READING everything that has gone on with you in the past day or so ; I can only imagine actually living it must be exhausting!!!
try to relax a little this weekend!

cuteallison1980 said...

I love the tag at the top.  I know you'd like roomie to move back, hope that happens at some point.  Get some Calgon and let it take you away!!  Great idea, I can use that myself.  Have a nice Saturday. : )


jckfrstross said...

enjoy your weekend:) you need to get away for me time


peytonswater said...

Get on the phone and call your friend. EMAIl and written words are the worst way to exchange thoughts and such when it is about this type of thing.  things get takin out of context and sound ways sometimes not intended. STOP emailing her and just call. If she is a friend you want to keep, pick the phone up ;)
love ya

chat2missie said...

I agree with Angie!  Pick up that phone and call her!  You both need to hear one another!  As far as Tom, he disapoints me!~   Hope you have a good weekend.

rgossett4195 said...

you have a very wise kid!  a calgon bath sounds way great right about now too! rose

eml625 said...

So sorry to read about the latest incident. You have a smart kid there. Stay strong, and keep one step ahead of him.
I hope you get some news  on the missing child. I hope they take you up on Xroomies help.
(((((((( HUGS )))))))))))

jillannemarie said...

I'm so to hear that the missing girl is still missing.  I hope they find her safe and sound SOON!

Regarding the man situation, I've been there and done that.  I'm sorry.  I hope Miss T knows that if she is ever thinks he has been drinking that you do NOT want her to get into a car with him.  I worry about you and that precious little girl.

I agree with the others.  You need some alone time.  Maybe Miss T could spend sometime with the xroomie and you could go get a manicure or even better yet, a massage!  

Have a good weekend.
Jill Marie

queeniemart said...

tell XRoomie to move back in pronto.
I could write a book about husbands, cough cough....we'll just leave it at "i am praying for you my friend".
i can not believe that teen is still missing...i can not imagine how her parents feel.

lifes2odd said...

If you run away come to Florida! :-)
I sure hope Mr Ryan will accept X-roomie's help!
Hugs, Martha

queenb8261 said...

When you get ready to run away...PLEASE let me know. I am sorely in need of a calgon moment myself. Ya know?
Have a good week gal.
Hugs, Barb