It's been a weird kinda week for me. Lots of mixed emotions.
First, I did speak with Mr Ryan on Friday. We shared information; he told me some personality traits about his daughter and I shared with him my personal experience with xRoomie. He mentioned "drums" and I told him to google "drum circles".
(Martha - the kid loves drums!!!)
He will talk it over with his wife and consider xRoomie's offer to help.
My bestestfriendinthewholewideworld is upset with me STILL about me not attending the "batchelorette" night. I sent her an email "what to do when...." and I received a short, curt reply to it which began an email exchange. I was near tears! I could have cried my eyes out, but I held it back.
I hope we got that straightened out. Still, I AM guilty of not being a very good friend as of late. I haven't seen her since Oct! (bad me and I feel like crap for it) Seems her X is refusing to help pay for their daughter's wedding; and her current is being a butthead.
Sigh.............I can't fix everybody.
xRoomie is not so comfortable in her current situation. We had lunch this week (yay!) and talked. I told her that her room was always available. Well, of course, 90% of her stuff is still here LOL!!!
Thursday Miss T had a half day at school so I told her to come to my office and I would put her to work! I let her file (I hate filing) while Mr Man went for lunch. He came back and I could SMELL that he'd had a drink and he didn't even have to get close to me.
He said One Beer.
He took Miss T to her dance class, then they came back and she was bent out of shape!!
Seems she had an issue with him and motioned that it was "his breath".
He then says "she thinks we're going to fight" and I said"NO, she's been told and is learning things for herself and in school about people who drink and their actions so don't be so surprised that she's acting this way!"
It bothered him because, as he put it "it was only one beer" and he feels like she and I are over reacting. So he leaves her with me.
She and I go out to eat, then I realized I had to be back at the dance studio to help hang and tag the costumes. They needed to be ready for Feb 2nd's dress rehearsal. I called and left him a msg on his cell.
We got home at midnight! No Tom. Not till 3am. I checked his account online...............
I had told him on Wed that I transferred $300 into his personal account, for gas, etc. He had wanted to go to Myrtle Beach for a boat show on Friday and Saturday.
Remember the incident just before Christmas?
De ja vu! Mirror --- Ditto --- Encore performance.
Friday morning after meeting with Mr Ryan, I picked up Miss T from Nanny's --- got a call from boss's daughter asking if I could pick her up from College and take her to a friend's house.....SURE.
Picked her up at Noon and then went BACK to the dance studio. Miss T and I were there until MIDNIGHT.
Once home, Tom said "I'm confused. That's all I have to say right now, so let it be."
I said "I think you have that backwards --- I am the one that is confused.
It's 11am on Saturday and raining. Gonna rain all day. He's still in bed, no surprise.
Going to be an intersting day.
Should I stay or should I go??? I need to stay home and work here. I am also needed to help with dance.
I need Calgon.
I need ME time.
I wanna run away.