Grrrrrrr comes to mind.
The hubby of friend is still being a jerk.
I think he's trying to isolate her from everyone - make her feel guilty like it's ALL her fault.
He growled at cindilouwho last night (she brought friend some reading material) and she told him in front of our friend that he needed to "can the attitude" in her bestest growl.
What a class act he is!
I phoned friend today and talked in my most cheery voice "hey - how are you? do you need me to bring you anything? magazines? ice cream? pretend umbrella drinks?" She sounded good. She's weepy and that's to be expected. Said she had to get her "mental and emotional" side on track.
I said "Mental first....the emotional can wait a bit" and she kinda agreed.
According to her, they are going to try and move her to a regular room today - GREAT NEWS!
So I said "that's great!" and that I would try to go by tomorrow once she's settled in....I'll go during the day while jerk is at work - girl talk time. I don't want to be pushy......this is probably very embarassing for her as well as touchy. Someone (else) needs to make her see that she doesn't deserve to give her love to this jerk.
I told Tom on the way home.....women (like me) need to keep a fine distance with men...not allowing their heart to be totally given over to nor controled by a man. I wonder if he got the point?
There is definately a wall between us. It has been put there to protect my heart. Sometimes I wonder just how much love there is for him. We may have just reached a comfort zone that neither one of us want to give up....familiarity.